The two ACPHS students met at Albany Community Health Day, the precursor to the ACPHS Health and Wellness Expo. Allard, a new student, recognized James from a class and struck up a conversation about an organic chemistry exam. She had done well; he hadn’t. She, on the other hand, needed assistance in humanities. They decided to study together.
James says he was smitten immediately.
“I hadn’t seen anyone as beautiful as my to-be wife,” he said on a Zoom video call with Allard by his side.
He knew for sure he had fallen for Allard after he sprained his ankle during basketball practice and was stunned by the pain. He had no interest in studying that evening, but he met Allard anyway. Worse than the pain was the thought of missing time with her.
The couple shared interests but also had traits that complemented each other. Aside from pharmacy, they were both student athletes (she ran track), shared eclectic tastes in music (rap and hip-hop to country) and liked checking out new restaurants. They were both involved in campus organizations, but different ones; they enjoyed brainstorming event ideas but never became competitive. He was popular and outgoing; her reserve balanced him.
It was a tragedy, though, that made them realize they had something more than a college romance. About a year and a half after they met, James’ older brother died.
“I distinctly remember thinking, if we can get through this together, then we can get through anything together, everything else will be easy,” James said.
They graduated in May 2020 and got engaged in January 2021. They initially planned for a September 2023 wedding but moved it up to September 2022 over concerns about Allard’s father’s health. Sadly, Allard’s father died before the wedding day. They almost cancelled but then decided they needed to celebrate life.
“I’m glad we did it, because it ended up being like a reunion,” Allard said.
At an Albany-area venue, they had 40 or 50 ACPHS friends in attendance. People were directed to their seats with labels on old apothecary jars.
At the early stages of their careers, James has found a niche working in regulatory affairs for a biopharmaceutical company. Allard started a new job last month as a faculty member at the University of St. Joseph in West Hartford, Conn.